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(that's a Jobs quote, btw)

Steve Jobs resigned as Apple CEO today, possibly because of his health: [link] Taken from his official resignation letter, he says, "I have always said if there ever came a day when I could no longer meet my duties and expectations as Apple's CEO, I would be the first to let you know. Unfortunately, that day has come."

This, coupled with a few emails I've gotten from readers and aspiring writers over the last few days, has made me really pensive. So I'm going to quote Steve Jobs' 2005 Stanford commencement address below:

"Remembering that I'll be dead soon is the most important tool I've ever encountered to help me make the big choices in life. Because almost everything — all external expectations, all pride, all fear of embarrassment or failure - these things just fall away in the face of death, leaving only what is truly important. Remembering that you are going to die is the best way I know to avoid the trap of thinking you have something to lose. You are already naked. There is no reason not to follow your heart." [link]

You only have one life. Don't spend your precious days working at a job to please your parents, or at a job you hate in exchange for some financial security. Believe me, I understand--I still regret not majoring in art and I almost went for a career I would have hated. I know the urgency of a roof over my head and food on the table, but my life's work should never be something I don't want to do. Do what you have to do to survive, but never lose sight of your real goals. Never get lost in the maze of Security. As Steve Jobs says, you have got, you have GOT, to find what you love. Life is just far too short to be spent otherwise. It stuns me every time I stop to think about how much Jobs has achieved in only 55 years of life. I hope that I'm able to achieve even a sliver of that.

If you know that you'll regret pursuing an accounting degree instead of a creative writing degree, pursue the creative writing degree. If you want to be an artist instead of a doctor, then be an artist. Be brave. Have faith. Do it. You only get one shot at life.
  • Listening to: Free Me - Joss Stone
  • Reading: The Wind-up Bird - Haruki Murakami
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:iconleayana:
I always feel so insecure about what I want to do because I know deep down that it breaks my parents' hearts to know that instead of being a doctor or a lawyer or something I apparently have potentional to become, I want to become a zoologist. Not a vet, which they would also be okay with, but a zoologist.

But reading what you have just written is a really great inspiration and I really have to thank you for helping me to keep my head above the water.
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:iconsekaihatsu:
Good of you to put this truth out here but whatever our dreams we must realize that it will be difficult to accomplish them because they our dream jobs and not the jobs the world expects us to have. The remedy is not to surrender to the will of other people's wants and expectations but to the will of God who planted the dream in our hearts. If we stay in faith that the dream seed He planted will come to fruition, God is going to take care of the necessities.
"I am more than a conqueror and gain a surpassing victory through Him Who loved me." Romans 8:37-39
"Better is s/he who is lightly esteemed but works for his/her own support (physical, emotional, working towards a dream) than he he who assumes honor for him/herself (taking on the pressures others bestow upon him/her) and lacks bread.(lacks fulfillment of self)" Proverbs 12:9
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:iconmendicant:
Well put. It's funny, but one gets the feeling Jobs got to where he is by doing what he loves. :D
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~Liten-Angel Aug 25, 2011  Student General Artist
The hardest thing for me... is there are so many things I love, that I am not quite certain which avenue to focus on. I am an artist at heart, but in multiple ways... so even being an artist hasn't helped narrow down what I want to do. I've been in college for a number of years (only really going full time in recently), and I still don't feel that I'm much closer to realizing what I want to do. I think I need to just make a decision and stick with it, which is not easy for an indecisive person.

I completely agree with this though... you need to live your life knowing that this life is short and everyone will die... life your life to the fullest. :) It's what I strive to do, but I know I can always do better. :)
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~No-2B Aug 25, 2011  Student Traditional Artist
I am blessed with parents who have told me this my whole life. They didn't care what we chose, as long as we were happy. Thanks for sharing.
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:iconastraldaamon:
Came to the realization last year that life is too short to be miserable 40hrs out of the week, after 5 years working in a field that I love and still love. The solution for me was to either find another job, though my opinion on Media companies had pretty much hit ground zero. At the same time I was offered the unique opportunity to take a year off to pursue what it is that I wanted to do: write. 1/3 of the way through my 3rd draft and I still have 8 months left to go on my freebie.

Thanks dad.
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*dragonririko Aug 25, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
I may not have pursued the major I really wanted to as an undergrad, but I don't really regret it. Sure there are days (or weeks) where things are going lousy in the lab and I think 'I wish I would have been an art major, or applied to vet school, or anything other than this...', but at the same time, the path I've chosen in life helped to shape me as a person. I'm probably better suited now to pursue a degree in art or veterinary medicine than I was at the end of high school. :)

That being said, I am soooo done with school after this.... :bleh:
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~LifeofaLegend Aug 25, 2011  Student Photographer
This is so true, and I'm extremely lucky to have parents who get this as well and support my Creative Writing Major/ Art Minor.

I have a friend who recently changed her major. She gets so much pressure from her parents. They were paying for everything, and now will only reimburse her if she does well. She didn't even switch to something like Writing or Art. She went from Engineering (which is a REALLY hard major at my Uni, and lots of people drop out the first year. I'm surprised she powered through two) to being an Elementary Ed/ Math major.

They didn't want her to come back to our Uni either. They wanted her to go to Community College and work 3 jobs or something.

I wish more parents understood allowing their kids to major in what they want. I know everyone wants their kids to have a "stable" future, but they want them to be happy too right?
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~TimeladyShayde Aug 25, 2011  Hobbyist General Artist
I decided that I wanted to be an archaeologist at the age of 12. At the age of 31 I am still fighting to do what I love. Thankfully I have very patient and understanding parents. Why should I have to go and work in an office or a shop? I am happy to do temp work to keep some money coming in, but it is my volunteer work at a local heritage centre that really keeps me alive.
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